About two years ago I asked a friend, who was feeling rather abandoned, to come join me and our friends on LJ. They refused on the grounds that they weren’t comfortable sharing their daily lives with thousands of other people. Even the friends-lock option couldn’t convince them. Today I learned he has had a Myspace account for some time, now. A fricken MYSPACE ACCOUNT!!! Yeah, that’s real private. *rolls eyes*

What really hurt was when I read that they had a close friend who helped helped out during their “difficult acceptance” phase abandon the friendship with them. Unless this person had a multitude of difficult acceptence phases over the past year and a half I can only assume they are referring to me, and I don’t think that is fair.

I was there when they thought no one else was but I have had my own shit to deal with, too. If it was that important, they could’ve contacted me. I could’ve set aside some time for them. Instead I’m labeled an abandoner.

I guess this explains why I haven’t heard from them in so long.